This year was my least productive in terms of writing since I started this newsletter. I've been reflecting on why, and I realized my morale took a serious hit. Many areas of my life suffered. I wasn't intentional at all; this year was the worst for that. I lacked a winning mindset, even though I started the year with vision boards, goals, and resolutions.
This was the year I took a job and quit after just 45 days due to significant issues I will raise one day. It was also the year I wrote most about being single. Interestingly, I had a crush this year. I even considered making a move. I was also writing a book and even had a "prophetic" wedding date in mind. Will I have a partner by 2025? We'll see.
On a positive note, I graduated with my master's degree this year. Looking back, I realize I focused too much on what wasn't working, especially my career. This narrow focus made me lose sight of the good things in my life.
My family is doing well. I have food and shelter. I'm blessed with amazing friends who are also succeeding. I'm healthy. This year, I learned that everything takes time. At the beginning of the year, my biggest worry was finishing and defending my master's thesis. I did it. I also worried about my final grade, but I graduated with top honors from a leading Nigerian university. At one point, my biggest concern was finding love. We'll revisit that in 2025.
The point is, problems pass. Time passes, and solutions come. It's important to stay positive and not let the world pass you by while you're consumed by your problems. You might think your issues are the biggest, but hearing other people's stories can be eye-opening.
Going into 2025, I've learned that life and circumstances can change quickly. I'll focus on fixing what I can now and avoid worrying about problems that haven't even happened yet. I'll start from this moment and try to stay present.
The Bible says, "Sufficient for a day is its own trouble." It also asks, "Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life?"
From quitting jobs to crushing goals, this year taught me the power of time and perspective.
You all are the first to hear about my experiences, both good and bad. Thank you for listening to my stories and thoughts. Thank you for opening your ears to my rants and bants.
If we listen, we don’t judge was a person; it will be you.
See you in 2025.
2025 wrapped will be massive baby!
Happy new year Doyeeen
Happy New Year, Doyinsola